Little Moments I’ll Never Forget.

I have to share this new thing Harper has been doing during our bedtime routine!

It just melts my heart every night and its something that i look forward to.

Dereck and I do the same thing with the kids every night when its time for bed.

Everyone runs and jumps into their beds.

Dereck and I go around giving all 3 kiddos their hugs and kisses and saying our good nights, tucking them all in.

When I get to Harper Jo I lean down give her a kiss on the head and say night night.

She has started this new thing that just melts me.

She wraps her arms around my neck pulls me down into her bed and squeezes as tight as she can.

Sometimes I have to give a reminder to “be gentle” lol.

She lets go of my neck, grabs both of my checks and gives a very aggressive kiss.

Lays back down on her pillow smiles and says ”night mom”.

Every night this little moment just continues to melt my heart.

Our Harper Jo is so loving.

The thing with moments like this and Harpers verbal language is it can come and go.

She could say something and we might not hear it again for days, months, or ever.

The little voice saying “night mom” means more to me than anything!

These are moments that i will never forget.

Flash back photo to baby Harper🫶🏼

This post was written by Shelby Shivener from Autism On The Farm.

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