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This is Advocacy. 


It’s taken me 6 months to get these medical supplies for Harper & Dallas. 


Constant calls to insurance companies. 

Constant calls to all of their doctors. 

Constant calls to medical suppliers. 

Piles of paperwork. 


Private Insurance is a nightmare. 


So many people think if you get the diagnosis they have to cover what is needed. 

I thought that. 

But that is the furthest from the truth. 


On this journey I quickly realized that the state nor your private insurance company does not care about your child with a disability or your family, if you go to work everyday and make a honest living, your child’s disability doesn’t matter. 


Being denied for these supplies didn’t sit right with me so I have fought. 

It’s a full time job to advocate. 

Filled with loop holes and hoops to jump through. 


When these came in the mail I might have shed a tear. 


This side of things can be mentally exhausting and stressful. 


But we conquered one mountain ⛰️ 

Always advocate for what’s right. 


This post was written by Shelby Shivener from Autism On The Farm. 


#autismonthefarm #supporters #autism #autismmom #advocacy

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